Or rather her behaviour and rudeness makes me cry. I know its pathetic and I should be a bigger stronger person but the truth of the matter is DD13 is so surly it makes me cry . Its all the usual stuff like me asking her to tidy her room and pick up clothes and then her being rude and asnwering back when I tell her I am disappointed she hasn't done as I have asked. Me saying I'm fed up having to treat you like a toddler and check up that you have done whats been asked of you. Am trying so hard just to get her to do the basics and to learn and grow and be responsible etc but she just sees me as the enemy. I know this is normal teenage stuff but I cant seem to rise above it and am reduced to tears frequently. I feel sad and upset that she is not listening to me and taking my advice and then I end up feeling really cross because she was an IVF prem baby and so precious that I hate feeling cross IYSWIM. She doesn't see my emotions by the way. Just needed to offload but any tips on how to 'toughen myself up' would be very appreciated. By the way she is very happy at school, has friends and has no worries (or so I am told). She gets lots of love and one to one attention too.
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