Hi, as a divorce lawyer I frequently have to refer children to Relateen, a branch of Relate for children over 11. They're very good in terms of helping children to talk when they feel they can't talk to their parents.
In the short term, though, I think the mum should get in touch with the school as often the school nurse/matron will have counselling qualifications.
otherwise, she could ask the GP to refer him to CAMHS for counselling.
Poor kid, it's heartbreaking what some of them are put through by their parents
If its school stuff that is the major issue try contacting the local EDW (Education Welfare Officer) they are also a resource to help / identify other solutions etc. My Dw works in a specialist school for EBD cases and a short 'respite' in a smaller unit may help. They are not just there for 'bad' cases but where more emotional support is needed.
the relationship has been on the brink for years I can't believe the father is being so nasty and unhelpful to say the least I mean I do being as he is but FFS it is his son
they are having to move out of the house where he was born because the father will not budge (HA rental) the mother found a new place, means a longer journey to school and losing neighbour / friends
the school want to help, the boy is a very bright being one of the youngest in the class and did GCSE's one year early (proud auntie)
he is clearly angry at his mother as well, as I suppose he would, she is finding it all quite difficult and is not very good at asking or help, he also feels bad for the father and at the same time does not feel accepted by him