I just don't know how to stop getting so annoyed with my 12 yr old dd about this!
I buy her clothes, or we buy them together.. She says she likes them and will wear them. I don't buy frumpy or old-fashioned stuff btw, I know what is in fashion or not.
Then they sit in her wardrobe unworn...for months until she finally grows out of them. She sticks with the same old, scruffy stuff.
For example, she was going to the cinema today with friends, a rare treat for her. She chose her oldest, bobbliest top that she wore yesterday, complete with ketchup stains) and point-blank refused to wear any of the nice summer stuff I have bought her. We ended up having a shouting match. She left in tears (in the scruffy clothes) after I said I might as well just empty her wardrobe into the dustbin if SHE JUST WON'T WEAR THEM.
I just don't get it. Why say she likes the stuff then not wear it? I have threatened to not buy her anything ever again (of course, thats not practical!) but I am SICK of wasting my money.
Any help/insight?
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theexmrsfederer · 13/07/2008 14:13
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