My friend's 15 year old has a huge poster on his bedroom wall of topless model. Her breasts are looking at you as you walk in his room! Anyay I told her that I was shocked she allowed him to have that on display. She reckons I am a prude because she thinks it is healthy behaviour for a boy that age.
On further discussion with a group of friends our response was evenly mixed. Half approved, half didn't. I fully expect my son of the same age is having a good rummage around 'dirty' magazines - that is normal 15yr old behaviour. I think half the fun will be that it is illicit and he thinks I know nothing. My friends son buys FHM magazine with her blessing.
The discussion went on to alcohol and there was again mixed feelings about allowing 13-15 year olds to drink alcohol. Some didn't think it was much of a problem for kids of that age to come home having evidently been drinking.
I think if there are no boundaries then kids will try and shock you with something more daring.
Am I just an old fashioned prude?
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mears · 19/12/2002 23:25
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