dd has been chatting on msn for months, but recently she is getting really secretive and shutting down the conversations if me or dh are around her. ( thankfully the computer is in the living room) we found a way of checking the conversations on the computer without needing passwords or any thing -( dh found the files by accident when doing some computer spring cleaning) so we can now check whats being said without her being aware. we dont do this regularly - but every now and then we check a couple of conversations. well i was so sus today with her behaviour while on the computer that i checked her conversations. i am shocked. she has been talking to a boy who she knew at lower school. a boy who has always been strange and a loner - he has a terrible family life and his father has always been strange and i always found him a bit pervy, and always trying to come on to women. the son is obviously taking after his father. i was mortified by the conversation - he asked for her bra size, which she stupidly gave him, and he talked about her seeing him turned on and was he turning her on. i am so mad!!! with her stupidity for going along with the conversation, for encouraging him. she tells me she thinks he is wierd but then seems to be lapping up the attention. is it my fault she seems to be so naive? am i over reacting? i dont know whether to confront her, to ban her from the computer for ever, to stop her going to town in case she meets up with the little p**ve!!!
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crkm · 24/04/2008 22:09
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