I am re-married and have a 15 year old daughter from a previous relationship.
Daughter and DH really do not get on, she is cheeky, ignorent and nasty to him and he winds her up, turns TV over when she is watching it, creates arguments for the sake of it etc. Basically he comes in from work and she goes to her room for the night to get away from him. She says she hates him and he insists that he is "trying" with her
Anyway she recently took up karate at the local leisure centre, its a 30 minute walk away from our house and doesn't finish until 9pm. On the way home she has to walk past some unsavoury areas by herself.
Anyway, without mentioning it to me she has gone and complained to my father (her grandad) about the whole situation saying that all the other kids/teens get picked up and she is the only one that has to walk home by herself. My dad went mad and said I should make my DH pick her up (I don't drive).
I mentioned it to DH and he refused saying if she cant treat him with respect why should he have to taxi her around. She goes 3 times a week and DH said when he gets in from work he doesnt want to be faffing picking her up at 9pm.
I don't drive. Now my dad is kicking off saying that since I got married I have pushed my daughter to the side. I am worried about her walking home at that time of night but I do see DH's point of view too.
Should he pick her up?
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SlappedFace · 26/02/2008 20:54
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