Are 16yr old DD has found a BF and has gone totally googly eyed and is fixated with him. She has already dropped behind with her assignments at collage and is constantly texin him. Has been seen in pubs with him by friends {he is older}. Lied to us about nearly everything and has travelled over 2 hrs to his house and came home through a dangerous busy bus station at 11pm We have put a curfew in place that shes takes the mick out of like {i just went the shop I'm only 15 min late} . I think she should stop seeing the lad and focus on her collage and get her future sorted .My DH has said that she can still see him but under some rules i.e. no going to his house only seeing him at weekends . But still with the joint emphasis on her getting her collage work done. This has lead to massive rows and numerous packing of bags !!! any way we have given her a new set of rules that we both have agreed to and so has she but i have my reservations as to whether she will stick to them .So i have thrown in an ultimatum . If she continues to break the rules I've said three more chances then she is to leave and go and live with her grand parents .To my husbands horror so just thought we would post this and ask what you all thought you may have some suggestions
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