A good friend has a teenager living with her.
She is not their birth mum but she cares for them because their birth mum is "unwell".
The teenager is going back to school soon after lockdown and they are going to want to go to the park with friends etc after school.
I don't want to go into specifics on here about their age etc because I feel it's not my place to say too much.
However, I can see my friend is starting to feel anxious. She said it's particularly hard, when they are not your own child, to know how much freedom to let them have. I think she's concerned about making the wrong decision and something goes wrong, ie what time they should be home etc.
The teenager has a very close friend whose mum lets them stay out incredibly late. My friend won't allow this.
Any suggestions on how to deal with this anxiety generally? My friend feels physically sick if the teenage is just a few minutes late home. This can't be ideal for the child. Is it normal to worry so much about your kids?
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londonscalling · 25/02/2021 00:08
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