She’s nearly 18, healthy weight, very active (runs and works out every day).
She is slim but is convinced she is fat. She will claw at her stomach skin saying it’s a fat roll.
She mainly eats very healthily, but obsesses over everything she eats. If she slips up and eats something “bad” she will feel very low after and beats herself up over it and will go on and on about how fat she is.
If she misses a workout or a run she will again obsess over how unfit she is.
She has been seen by camhs twice now for depression, anxiety, ocd traits, and been discharged both times because they say she’s fine, plus she doesn’t engage well (first time round she bonded with one of the workers, they then said it wasn’t ok to rely on one worker and discharged her).
She has good days and bad days.
Lockdown has been fairly good for her and she is less depressed/anxious, but has flared up with this in the last week or so.
I’m so tired of the constant issues. I want to help her, and on good days we can have good chats. Today is a bad day, I’ve been told to fuck off because I won’t agree with her that she’s fat.
I’m so tired.
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Dd convinced she is fat and obsessed with exercise and eating healthily.
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PaperScissorsRock · 14/07/2020 20:15
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