I will try to summarise as much as poss
DD 15
spending more and more time in her bedroom even before lockdown.
Most days she doesn’t go out or get dressed and wanders around with a heavy dressing gown on top of her clothes.
She is normally quiet and withdrawn
Its a struggle to have a conversation with her.
She was bullied in year 7.
She has a small group of quiet less popular friends at school but only really seems to be bothered about one of them.
She is dyslexic.
Had good parents evening, main comment was she was too quiet in class but seems to quietly gets on with her work and homework.
Shows no interest in her appearance (hair, skin, hygiene, clothes or fashion).
No interests since about year 8 we have really tried to encourage this but nothing worked.
She is very disrespectful to me calls me by my christian name a lot, swears and ignores me often.
Her bedroom is a complete tip.
I feel sorry for her in lockdown and always want her to know that I love her and care about her.
She is aggrieved about how her year group are being let down due to no school, not seeing friends and her teachers are sending work through in dribs and drabs on a whole variety of platforms/formats.
DH has been working from home so he has been dealing with her more as she seems to prefer him and get less grumpy with him and I am fed up of always playing the bad guy.
I have tried all ways to try and find out if anything is bothering her but to no avail.
She wont eat meat, wont eat fruit or veg and lives on bread, rice, pasta, halloumi, beans and chocolate. So every meal time is a battle often with her shouting she will just make her own (as she won’t say what she wants but will eat very little of anything).
She is very pale but is of average build rather than being underweight.
She has had one Socially Distant walk with her best friend and I thought this might help perk her up but it hasn’t made any difference.
Anyone any tips on how to help my DD and how to cope as her mum?
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DD 15 very quiet and withdrawn
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LockdownLucie · 28/05/2020 16:38
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