My 17 year old son had one of his tantrums tonight over this issue.
The WiFi goes off his laptop & Xbox , which he uses both for gaming, at 11.30pm. I've always used time restrictions & he's always complained about them.
He has been seeing a therapist for depression for 4 months now & agreed with her that gaming is the one thing he needs to do that distracts him enough to feel better. I attended a review and understood that but don't think he needs unlimited access because of it.
He already can't sleep until 4am, sometimes later or not at all. I think all this screen time isn't helping his body regulate a normal sleep pattern.
He said tonight no other 17yr old or even any teenager has timing restrictions on their internet so why does he? Everyone else isup all night on games having fun & he's miserable in his room. I'm making his depression worse etc etc ETC!
In the end as I keep saying, I told him if he doesn't like the rules here he can move out. He said he would if he could & how. I told him to get a job or join the army or Google it.
I don't mean to get into it all in this post, we've been having problems the last few years, but am I being so unreasonable with night time internet restrictions? What do you do with your older teens on this issue?
Also he still has unlimited.internet 24/7 on his phone, so he can still be up on that watching YouTube, phone games, gaming forums whatever if he can't sleep, but of course that's not good enough.
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jellyfish2121 · 03/05/2020 00:35
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