Every bloody night. We agreed with the DD's at Christmas that they would give their phones to us at 9.30 every night and they get them back in the morning. They would otherwise be on them until the early hours and they need some boundaries.
Dd2 (13) is pretty good and will give us hers when asked and given a 5 minute warning before.
Dd1 (14) is vile about it every single evening. I've listened to her tonight chatting to her friends on it for an hour before I went in and asked her for it. She then started saying she needed it to do her homework. I pointed out that it was too late to be doing her homework, it was past 9.30, and besides she had been talking to her friends for the past hour. Which triggered twenty five minutes of her talking utter rubbish about how she was doing her homework at the same time as chatting to them, she'll get an afterschool detention, it will be my fault etc etc, and culminated in her calling me pathetic. She is usually relatively nice for a 14 year old-but this one issue makes her incredibly spiteful.
I have told her she has now lost her phone outside of school hours until Saturday morning. Which will also end up being a battle.
I've now gone to bed tired and upset. And just so bored of this night after night.
It's not realistic to take her phone from her during school hours as annoyingly they use them for quizzes etc in school and all
Their homework is accessed via an app (which doesn't help).
At this point I wish I could throw the bloody thing in the canal and have done with it.
Does anyone else have this issue and is there any kind of solution? So fed up with it.
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MurrayTheMonk · 21/01/2020 23:20
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