A bit out of familiar territory here as DD(13) doesn't usually go to sleepovers.
A friend of hers that used to go to her school is having a birthday sleepover at her house with DD and another friend of theirs.
The friend moved out of the area a few months ago but is still in touch. I haven't met the friend or the other friend that's going.
I don't drive, so the friend that is also going to the sleepover and her parents are going to pick DD up and take her.
I've not met either of the girls before or any of the parents.
I've had a look at DDs phone and from messages it all looks on the level and they're going swimming and shopping and it looks like they'll have fun.
DD has got the phone numbers of the parents of both girls for me so I can ring them today.
Just feels really counter-intuitive to let my girl be picked up by people I don't know to take her to a house of people I don't know in a town an hour's drive away. It's making me feel a bit twitchy and I don't know whether I'm being wildly irresponsible.
At the same time, I know sleepovers are a big thing for kids this age and I don't know the parents of most of her friends if I'm honest.
I don't have suspicions that things are not on the level - it's just the not knowing the parents and the distance that is making me nervous.
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Servalan · 17/01/2020 08:58
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