Lying awake worrying out of my skull as DD1 started scratching and then cutting herself about 4 weeks ago. We discovered/worked it out pretty quickly which o guess is positive, and if the advice I've read since is anything to go by, had reasonable instincts in the way we've approached it, and she's for a couple of friends she's confused in but I feel so utterly helpless and so desperately sad that she's feeling so awful.
She's autistic so there's ah extra layer of sensitivity to navigate with her, and I'm scared of losing her trust. I need her to be talking and I don't want her to shut down but at the same time I know she's in her room and is scared of her own urges to do herself damage. I don't want to compel her to seek professional help (and she very easily takes against people if they talk down to her or underestimate her so it may not work anyway) but I feel like we're doing nothing and failing to help.
And now we're both going to be knackered in the morning, and it's hard enough to get her to school on a good day.
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Clutterista · 27/11/2019 02:11
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