My 15 year old DS came to an event with me tonight, I need to be a wee bit cagey with details just in case I’m outed.
I had 5 kids in my care from Age 7-15, I was running a busy community event and they all had to come and help out/join in. They knew this well in advance and it’s something we’ve done before. He had to come and stay, he was welcome to bring friendS but decided not to, other DC did bring friends and the event is fun, not all work.
I tasked him with a job with some friends of mine and he disappeared.
I called, as did a friend, he ignored the call.
Other DC saw him go off with his mates.
After two hours, he texted me to say “I care about my friends more than being there”
After four hours, I got a text asking if I was still at the event. I told him yes. By now I’m really cross but decide to not have a pop just yet. He arrived back five hours after disappearing, the event was over, everything tidy and we were waiting in the car.
We got home and I now have his phone.
WWYD re punishment?
He’s normally well behaved, if not a bit selfish, rarely does jobs and when he does, it’s the absolute minimum. He’s doing well at school.
I feel like now is a good time to teach him a lesson on respect and if he wants to behave like an adult then he needs to show me he can take the responsibility too.
Any suggestions? I didn’t deal with it tonight as I knew I was too cross - help!
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15 year old DS being a douchebag, help me with a punishment
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ChanningsPony · 11/11/2019 23:24
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