Hi all, i'm hoping for some guidance/advice on how to deal with my dd13, i'm really struggling to cope with the change in her attitude over the last 6-12 months. She is beyond moody (she says she has anger issues), cheeky, disrespectful, lazy, ungrateful, argumentative and just not a nice person to be around i'd say about 95% of the time. I do try and stay calm and deal with her moods in such a way that doesn't disrupt the whole house (i have a ds10) but other times i lose it, then feel really guilty. She has gone from being a sensitive, caring, generally lovely girl to this horror who never wants to spend time with us in the house, and god forbid we try and get her to go out of the house with us to do something as a family (even a walk turns into a stressful situation as she whinges and moans and groans the whole time).She wants freedom to do what she wants, when she wants, and when we try and parent her appropriately according to her age (set time limits for coming home etc) she accuses us of being really strict and says none of her friends' parents are as strict as us. I just don't know what to do, or how to deal with her outbursts - do you ground them, take their phones of them, try and reason with them (this doesn't seem to work with her at the moment), or any other suggestions as to how to get through this. The thought of this going on for another 3,4,5,6 years is driving me mad!
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Mrsdavidson · 04/11/2019 20:12
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