My son is 17 yrs old and my only child/single parent set up, so have no siblings to compare him too, so just wanted to see if other parents think his behaviour is 'normal' (or as normal as it gets being a teenager!!).
His whole life seems to revolve around his social life and partying - it comes before college, his part time job, and family commitments.
When he is not working or at college he is always 'out' and never seems to see free time as time to catch up with college work, or sleep.
He occasionally misses college too, being too tired or would rather be doing something with his mates. The problem is that he is studying 3 x 'A' levels, all in science subjects, so needs to be far more committed if he wants decent grades. He has been trouble at college for being abscent.
Things got out of hand last weekend when he missed work as was too tired/partied out to start a 8.30am shift. He said he was going to stay in the night before this shift, but has such a lack of willpower, was persuaded by his friends to go out.
I am pleased that her has such an active social life and a close circle of friends. but how do I teach him that sometimes other things have to take priority?
Or do I just sit back and watch him learn the hard way ie loosing jobs, getting in trouble at college etc?
Thanks in advance.
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Akrotiri1 · 17/10/2019 16:59
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