That letter to a parent from a teenager written by Bagpuss on another page has just made me sob. I am sitting at my computer sobbing writing this.
I am a single Mum to two boys. My oldest is 18 and bar a few sulky years (that I could nearly always jolly him out of) we have survived. My youngest at 13 is causing me so much stress I actually don't know where to start. I feel like I am drowning right now. I am currently hiding in my sisters flat so that I don't have to go back alone (my step Dad is coming with me) after taking the wifi box and cancelling his mobile with the phone company. His list of behavioural issues is so long. He is on threat of expulsion from school currently, I have little support from his Dad who just tells me I am not strict enough, and I may not be but I am completely totally and utterly exhausted. He has been a difficult child since a toddler, is very bright and also very big (he is 5'10 and I am 5'2)
Sorry I am waffling and don't really know what I am looking for from this. I am just so tired of every single day having a big fight. It is every day. I can't break the cycle. I try leaving him to it and he will literally spend a whole weekend in his bedroom on his devices. I try taking things off him and he kicks back with such force its unbearable. My oldest is desperate to leave home because of him and it is breaking my heart as we have brilliant relationship, but I don't want him to parent his brother.
I simply cannot win in any direction
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Lisaj1970 · 28/09/2019 11:21
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