Hi I had to name change as feel so bad.
My 16 year old dd will never let me see who she is meeting and I find this very hard.
She was out with her bf yest after school only going out a month. I know his name but nothing else.
She came in while I was in bed and said he asked to see her again this evening and I said that's fine come home get changed and I will leave you in town to meet him but please can I see him.
She then changed it and said they where going out as a group of 4 which is 2 girls and 2 boys and I said are you a lesbian is that why you don't want me to see.
I have nothing against lesbians and don't mind if she is as long as I know.
She got really upset and said she wasn't going out.
This happens nearly every week.
Last week I went into the shop where she was to meet this girl and the girl was not even there.
She kept arguing with me that she is 16 should be allow do what she wants so I just stopped the car and let her out.
I get so angry at this and say things I regret.
I just want to see who she is meeting to know she is safe for the evening.
I take anxiety medication and blood pressure tablets and have spoke to my gp about this.
I am constantly worried about her. as she has been hit at school and at a disco in the past year.
I have another dd 14 and I don't worry about her like this as she lets me see who she is meeting.
I feel so bad the things I say.
I can't concentrate at work and just feel like crying at the minute.
Please give me advice not a telling off as I am sore enough on myself.
How do others handle it when they reach 16.
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terriblemum1 · 06/09/2019 10:50
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