My eldest dd is 12 and a half and due to us living rurally find that she spends a lot of time not doing very much.
We obviously do make an effort trying to organise trips to the cinema, swimming pool etc but it’s not something we are able to do for her every day mainly down to cost.
She would really like to go and hang out with her friends in the big park in our nearest town, where a lot of her friends are from but I’m just not sure I’m happy with her not having something structured to do and feel sometimes that’s when trouble starts (drinking, smoking etc) and I also remember be pretty pissed off at teenagers hanging about parks, swearing and being inappropriate when my DC were little.
She is my 1st born though and I am aware that I’m probably being a little over protective.
Wondered firstly how much freedom everybody else’s 11-14 year olds have and if it’s normal to just go and let her hang out somewhere with her friends but also how do you fill their days during the hols without having sell a body organ...
Please help me out with ideas, activities, visits that won’t break the bank but that also aren’t “cringe” 😬😬😭
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adonemumofthree · 05/08/2019 14:01
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