15dd has just started a relationship with a 16yo boy in her class at school. Have been friends for a year but dd recently split with he first bf which absolutely broke her heart. That was all quite innocent and they saw each other only occasionally out of school here at home. They are still in touch and talk regularly on Fatetimer. Cue, friend who then declared his attraction for her and has managed to woo and wow her (I think it's a rebound thing but hey what do I know dd doesn't communcate and just thinks we don't like the new boy ...) It's all happened at a million miles an hour and dh and I are nervous things are a bit intense. Anyway, my concern is that a friend has seen images on social media with heads in laps and lying on chests. This is all new and unknown territory to me and I know it goes on BUT my cncern is the message it is portraying to others seeing the images. I don't want her thought of as being a bit 'game' .. I have seen the start of Insta messages pop up on her ipad freferring to her bf as getting'lucky'. DD hs said she's too scared to even kiss him let alone anything else, she's pretty innocent on that front.
So, my question is how do dh or myself broach the subject of not posting these sort of images publicly for all their 'friends' on social media to see - we are obviously blocked from those accounts so we can't say we've seen them. The digital footprint concerns me and where does it stop .. lying on his naked chest next ? ? I want her to have some decorum and grace .. I know she's not naked or got her boobs out etc but we are really unhappy about this. What do we say as a geberal request etc? Help :-(
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Flossiefoo · 12/07/2019 22:17
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