DD is in Year 10 - 15. Had a lovely group of friends since starting secondary. But this year they have fractured. There was one big group in the class that dd used to be part of. But now it's two smaller groups, and the girls in the breakway group are being really mean to the other girls - ignoring them, leaving them out, not inviting them to partiesm, blanking them, excluding them, talking loudly about what they've been up to in front of them but not socialising at all with them out of school.
The worst thing is that dd's best friend is the worst one. She's got a new best friend and they're all over each other and exbf is being nasty to dd and the other group.
It's especially nasty because this girl has always been so lvoely. I can't imagine why she's changed so much.
All the girls in the left behind friendship group are upset.
WWRD? Say something to school? Say something to parents of exbf (we are friends), or leave the dc to sort it out themselves? Apparently girls are crying each day and it all sounds like a hot mess.
DD has tried to talk to exbf and say how upset she is at the way she's acting, but exbf either airs DD or pretends she has no idea what she's done wrong. Of course she has!
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thegreatcrestednewt · 14/05/2019 16:31
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