2 teens, currently banned from every vein screen related after a while series of general disrespect and not doing basic chores, fighting etc etc.
This has gone in for a long time because despite this ban they have continued the negative behaviour.
They both have very simple chores to do and both just don't bother.
Several times now I've come in when they weren't expecting me in to find they've got round parental controls and have been playing Xbox even though they know it's banned.
I cannot take anything more from them, there isn't anything left to take. So where do I go from here?
We've tried wiping the slate clean but everytime they take the piss! If they're given an hour of Xbox they sneak an extra hour later etc,
Today again it's the same I've gone in the house and they've both been sat on Xbox! Rather than shouting and ranting I just left again and told them I didn't want to speak to them right now.
They called my ex in tears telling him 'Mum has run away'
I think maybe we are find this all wrong, taking and taking and taking until they have nothing to lose so just do what they want but I can't find a balance between giving them freedoms and privileges and sanctions when they break them. It's all such a mess!
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BumbleBeeWineGlass · 09/04/2019 11:26
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