I really need some advise please I’m at my wits end! My 16 year old daughter has absolutely no motivation for life what so ever! I feel like I’ve tried everything to try and get her to be more positive about things but all she wants to do is stop in bed. She is now horrible to her sister and argues with me and her dad most days which is really getting me down.
She will stop up til 2/3am even on school nights which obviously makes it a struggle to get her up in the mornings, I’ve taken all electronic devices off her, tried sprays for her pillow and room, talked to her about things that may be worrying her to which nothing works.
She will stay in bed all weekend she doesn’t want to go out and do things with her friends, we are now at the point where her friends have stopped trying with her now which I find really sad on her behalf.
Her predicted grades were really good at the start of year 10 but we have just had her mock results back and her results were not that great. She couldn’t be any less interested in starting college and to be quite honest I’m not sure how she will manage in the big wide world anyway because she doesn’t help round the house, she won’t cook for herself she thinks the world owes her something. I am at fault for tidying up after her and cooking for her but I’m one of these people that worries if someone doesn’t eat!
Any advise on what to do would be greatly appreciated, like I said I’m at my wits end.

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JulesM3 · 15/01/2019 10:52
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