Help needed!

[Flamingle]

My teen daughter is usually lovely and doing well at school, but recently she has turned into a nasty madam. She refuses to clean, help out and is downright rude to both of us. Tonight I refused to give her a lift to her outing due to her terrible attitude. She texted a friend and her friends mum came to pick her up! And off she went - I’m just so shocked by her sudden poor behaviour. How do I stop this?!?!?!?!?!? AND how do I deal with her when she returns home? I just don’t feel like speaking to her at all after undermining me like that.

[TeenTimesTwo]

How old?

What do you have control of that she really cares about? (eg do you pay for her phone?)

I don't think that battles of wills work well. Stressing the benefits of keeping you onside might work better.

It could be hormones, love, stress from school, or exhaustion after a long term at school?

[Santaisonthesherry]

Let her be self sufficient for a few days.
She will be back.....