I can't believe I'm writing this. My daughter has been keeping herself to herself for a while which I just put down to usual teenage behaviour. We've had issues with her using her phone in the bathroom possible sending pictures of herself. We looked at her phone to find very upsetting messages to one particular boy about feeling worthless, about how she can't bear me, when can she leave home, how I make her feel like s disgrace. She's been having problems with school work too. We have arranged for her to see someone regarding confidence and preparing for exams.
I've been the main person dealing with school, homework and day to day stuff with the kids. I thought I was being firm and fair but obviously I've been doing it all wrong.
We've talked to her about it and I've backed off, just offering support as and when needed.
This morning I found a note in her room that she had written. Describing her feelings and that she had been cutting. I'm completely devastated for her.
I'm so out of my depth with this - how to I approach this and what do I say to her?
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hillbilly · 11/12/2018 08:59
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