My eldest DD will be doing her GCSEs next year, after which she hopes to travel to the US, visiting a couple of relatives in different states, eventually ending up in the Bahamas to stay with great aunt (her dad's side of family) who lives there and go diving (great aunt is a professional diver, DD has never dived before but loves swimming and the sea). DD would be financing this trip herself with savings and she will be nearer 17 than 16 at date of travel (Oct birthday). I'm not sure whether I should be supporting or discouraging her plans! I'm all for her having independence and adventures but a big part of me feels it would be better saved until after A-levels (and maybe combined with a Camp America type thing and a gap year). I would not be able to go with her as a) she wouldn't want me to!and b) have younger DC I could not leave or afford to bring.
Is she too young for this trip? Or am I being over-protective? (DD would say the latter and will be most displeased if I say anything negative about her plans so I have to be careful how I approach this!)
I did travel to the US myself with a friend when we were both 14 and stayed with family friends for 3 weeks but times were different back then...
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Travelling to US alone after GCSEs
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kinseymilhone · 15/09/2018 13:19
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