My (nearly) 13 year old is spending most of the day in his room. I think he is quite a mature nearly 13 year old physically and his voice seems to have dropped a lot so I am assuming his can now be called a teenager.
When he comes out of his room to see us or get food he has his phone in his hand and his headphones on. Is this normal? We went on holiday last week and whilst he had a good time he did go off at night to his room to watch videos on his phone.
I am not concerned about what he is watching. My DH has his phone locked down and he checks his phone all the time. He is just watching TV shows (Thin Blue Line, Blackadder, Monty Python) and checking out plane crashes on youtube. He joins in on his schoolfriend WhatsApp but mainly with one word answers.
He doesn't seem to want to set up any playdates with his friends and he is not meeting them online because he doesn't have a gaming console. He seems happy enough, he has hobbies that are solo type things and plays with his younger brother.
Should I be worried about him? I am worried he is not getting enough peer interaction.
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TypicallyNorthern · 30/07/2018 09:24
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