Ages ago I bought 3 tickets for a London show in the summer, for me, DD & a friend of her choice. DD chose Molly (not her real name). However, M & DD have been not the best of friends recently. M has a history of letting DD down at the last minute, in favour of something more interesting (new year party, day out etc) & spends most of her time with a group of self-centred girls who only seem to be interested in their appearance. M complains about them to DD, how they make her feel inadequate if she does/says/wears the wrong thing. DD feels that M can only be her real self with DD, i.e. letting her hair down, being silly, laughing till they cry, basically mucking about & having a relaxed time. M never seems to do this with the other girls, but seems to rely on them in some way. M has also bought the same dress for prom after asking to see DD's dress & couldn't see why DD was upset M can be lovely, but also really thoughtless. I'm not sure why DD stays friends with M - she says she loves M but hates what she does a lot of the time.
So of course DD really doesn't want to take M to the show, but having invited her ages ago I don't think she can un-invite her. DD knows it would be a horrible thing to do, with all sorts of ramifications. I think part of DD's thought process is that she'd prefer to take her BF & she's telling herself she would have a better time with him, rather than M. There's no way out of this one, is there. Gah, teenagers...
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PingPongBat · 04/07/2018 17:22
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