My 16 year old - 17 in a few months - has been lying to me about most things about her relationship. We have now got to the point where she has admitted to a romantic relationship with a girl. Not an issue, it's a relief to be open about it. The girlfriend has always refused to meet us. I just accepted this and thought it would be inevitable one day. I can't say I'm that bothered about the lies (or secrecy) as I was incredibly secretive as a teen and my DM knew hardly anything about what I was doing!
However, this weekend we went away for one night and left her and her older sister, and DD decided to have this girl around for the night without telling us. I found this out after finding a mostly drink bottle of spirit in her room.
So what I'm angry about is that this girl who has refused to meet us has had the audacity to come into our house, and I expect that her mother doesn't know that we didn't permit this. I am also concerned about DD drinking although I'm guessing this is binge drinking only when they're together either once a week or less.
I feel like going to her mother's house and telling her what has gone on.
How do I go forward with this? Any advice please?
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16 year old DD - lies, drinking and girlfriend
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Changeissometimesgood · 07/05/2018 10:21
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