My 14yr old Son (yr10) suffers with Adhd, anxiety and OCD. He has always struggled with school. He is "normal" on the surface though and is in a friendship group of about 5 boys.
Recently, every so often, his friends suddenly decide they don't like him and don't answer their phones and lie about where they are so he can't play out with them. This happened yesterday so he spent all the lovely sunny day in the hoise alone. They then text him some horrible texts which he did make worse by reacting angrily, but because of his ADHD that's how he reacts, especially when he doesn't understand what's happened.
This morning he is refusing to go to school as he's worried they've all turned against him and he'll have no-one at break time to be with.
I'm not a fan of missing school but his anxieties are very real and I don't want him being bullied or left put or worried at school.
I've explained that its better to face things rather than hide and try to make things better but it's hard for a teenager to grasp that.
He's too big to force to go..
Would you let him stay off for the day?
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Neveragain12 · 23/04/2018 07:46
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