Hello, does anyone have experience of their teens jumping from one friendship group to another?
My DS13 will be moving into 3rd year after summer. He has such a wide range of friends since starting high school, which initially I was really happy about. But lately he seems to have fallen away from the ones he was friendly with from primary, and is friendly with some boys who by all accounts seem nice kids, but I don’t know them.
I asked him tonight about the “old” friends and he said he doesn’t like hanging about with them anymore. This has made feel anxious and I don’t know why. They have always been there or thereabouts even when he’s been hanging out with others here and there, and it makes me sad to think he might be alienating himself from that group. He doesn’t even speak to them on his x box now.
I know he has to find his own way. Just wondering if this is normal. He assured me there’s no fallout or anything, but he never gives much away about that kind of thing so I can’t be sure.
Just wondered when your kids settled into their friendship groups, of at all!
I know this is quite a stupid thread, he has friends, what’s the problem? I just worry he’s going to shoot himself in the foot by ditching people when he thinks someone better has some along.
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teenangstforme · 09/04/2018 23:36
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