I have just been decorating dd’s room and found an empty condom packet.
She is not even 15years old (birthday in a few weeks) boyfriend of a few months is in the same school year, I’ve met him on a number of occasions recently. He was here for a couple of times in half term on the understanding they stay downstairs. I was out for a spell doing work, her sister was in the house. Argh!
dd and I have had a few good chats over the past couple of months about sex. She told me she wasn’t intending to have sex yet. I told her that I don’t want her to have sex yet, to me 14 is too young.. but I have told her if/when she decides to have sex it’s her body but. to come to me and we will discuss where to go for the contraceptive pill. And if all safety measures in place her dad does not need to know etc etc
And hey presto. Used condom packet. I don’t need any hysteria over possibility of prosecution, sex offenders register etc.
I just want to know that to sensibly say now to dd. Am concerned primarily the condom is not sufficient protection. And given her age and inadequate protection do I now tell her dad (who lives elsewhere). He will go ape.
How do I handle this right, please..... I feel sick!
Someone please talk me down....
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HipsterAssassin · 26/02/2018 17:24
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