I have a DSS 17 who is with us half the week. ALL he talks about is drinking, smoking/smuggling/selling cigarettes, his mates stealing motorbikes and mopeds, his mates shoplifting, his mates who are money mules/doing credit card fraud, his mates stepdad doing cocaine at the kitchen table, all of the kids their age carrying and buying knives/knuckledusters.
We give him money for his Oyster card and he spends it on cigarettes and uses his little sisters child zip card (his mum's suggestion). His mum's boyfriend is going to pay for a bloke to go over to his mums house and do DSS's first tattoo.... on his hand!
We always point out why all these things are a bad idea, we aren't hysterical about it but DH certainly tells him if he disapproves. The stealing especially gets DH's back up.
We are very normal hardworking non-criminal people who quite boringly pay our own way, we have two younger kids and I worry that they will normalise all this crazy talk. DSS mum isn't particularly criminal either, so he's not getting it from her.
We have given him money for 12 months Xbox live for his birthday. He signed up on a one month for £1 deal and now the next months payment is about to be taken he has withdrawn his money out of his account to let it go into unauthorised overdraft, even though NatWest will charge £8 a day. He doesn't care what you say.
It is quite exhausting, has anyone else experienced this, please tell me he will grow out of it!
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DSS 17 obsessed with criminality!
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zebrano · 29/01/2018 00:14
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