Posted before. Dd (age 17) had a party at our home (against my instincts and with promises from dd and mners saying I was bu not to let her) it was a disaster.
Subsequently Xmas and new year was also miserable. It's also left me out of pocket (had to get stuff repaired/replaced)
Since then things have been fraught, the only time it's anywhere close to normal/ok is when she's getting everything her own way.
I love her of course I do, but she is REALLY making it hard to like her. Today for the 3rd time only since before Xmas I asked for a SMALL favour and she's lost temper and gone off in a sulk. Having of course refused to do the favour.
I'm so sick of it! But I also don't currently have the energy or inclination to probably start yet another huge argument about her behaviour.
She works and pays keep (1/4 of her wage doesn't even over all her costs) but seems to think that entitles her to an uncomplaining 50's housewife in the shape of mum. (Apparently work is SOOOOOO tiring but all I expect her to do housework wise is her room and clean the bathroom once a week, work is 10 min walk away - BUT she is up till 2/3am on phone to friends )
Please help me figure out a way to deal with this?
I don't want to have to ask her to move out but it's getting increasingly frustrating.
She's JUST As a write this come in to say she'll do the favour (VERY begrudgingly) but that's because she wants a favour (loan) off me (skint following Xmas due to not budgeting and "needing" a new outfit inc shoes for each party/event)
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Mumchanges · 11/01/2018 20:54
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