Sorry this is vague. I have relatives on MN so trying not to tell them all this indirectly.
I told DD she could have something very expensive. I was sure I could talk DH around & he would ask his parents to help pay for it. But I didn't consult DH before making that offer. :( It turns out PILs only want to do what DH recommends.
Months later, DH remains implacably opposed. He deems the item a ridiculous waste of money. He says his folks only said "Yes" (recent) because DD pressured them. He is furious about Princess DD acting so entitled.
DH is being a wimp. He is sulking and stressed out but he doesn't want to tell DD No.
I made this mess because I should have consulted DH first. So now it falls to me to tell DD NO. An almighty many day/week tantrum will ensue and the tension between DD & DH is going to be horrific.
I am scavenging here for moral support. And any suggestions when or how it's best to tell a bolshy Teen they can't have something their heart is set upon. Thanks in advance.
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How to tell a teen NO. :(
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mloo · 01/01/2018 19:45
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