I'm on here writing as an older sister, not a mother. My 17 year old brother is a funny, healthy and good looking boy who up till about 5 months ago had a steady stream of friends and social activities. He was confident and happy. Now, he appears to have no social life and is rarely contacted by his previous group of friends. He comes home from school, goes to his room and sleeps. The weekends are the same, if not worse as he doesn't even get the social interaction he would get at school. I've caught him smoking weed in his room on several occasions- the thought of him doing it socially doesn't stress me out as much. Its the fact that he clearly finds a release and comfort in doing it on his own. I can tell he is high most evenings. I really don't know what to do, i don't know what has happened and i can see his confidence and personality dwindling. I can tell he's sad and lonely- he's implied it several times as well however i struggle to speak to him as i get emotional. I'm really worried he's wasting his young life away, he's got no motivation (except playing football 3 times a week). I'm looking for any sort of advice, any similar situations and i guess some sort of hope that this will turn around. I've been making a subtle effort to spend time socially with him, but there's only so much comfort a 17 year old boy can get hanging around with his 24 year old sister.
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My 17 year old brother is so lonely and sad
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sistersledgee · 30/11/2017 20:31
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