My DD confidence is taking a battering, she is kind, lovely, caring, intelligent, amazing and beautiful( yes I know I am her mum but other parents have told me so too) She is very mature for her age and head girl at school. But she is lonely, we have done all the join clubs find other people that have the same interest but she would like one close friend.She does not trust any of the girls in her year and refuses to be involved in talking about others/drinking/drugs and is often the voice of reason this may not help and she is aware of this. She has older friends out of school. very active club wise out of school.
She is doing amazingly well at school but she seems to be focusing now on feeling 'left out' and says what is the use of being clever doing well if nobody wants to be my friend. She is excluded from parties, social media, lunchtime groups and when she has asked other to do things they are busy etc to the point she has now given up asking. She has this amazing nothing is getting me down attitude most of the time and is determined to go to the school prom alone because nobody is going to ask me to join them. I do worry that this is going to effect her long term with friendship and trust as she is not ale to get why people are just not kind. I know she is not alone but I am really struggling with trying to help her. She thinks I am an amazing mum with all my straight talking but we have had tears tonight (party for most of the yr this w/e not her) other than hugs I am all out of ideas.
Does anyone have any advice on how I can help her at all - I feel for her, I really do, but I can't make others like her.
It doesn't help when you see all the pics on Facebook of other girls from school in large groups out and about enjoying themselves
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Mavis17 · 02/11/2017 22:59
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