Abusive 15 yr old son

[Bakerboo26]

Does anybody else suffer from physical aggression and daily verbal abuse from their kids?life can be so tough with my son.he refuses to go school and waking him up is a nightmare as he will punch,kick and throw anything he can put his hands on. The verbal abuse is daily. So fed up at the mo with it all.

[Nikki188]

I have just posted a thread on my daughter, struggled for 3 years with her abuse and aggression towards me and my children.
Have you referred him to cahms?

[Bakerboo26]

Hes been camhs 4 times since he was 7yrs old and the last time they basically advised he went into care because if his behaviours.last thing i wanted.so no faith in them at all.they diagnosed him with odd and conduct disorder however the therapy thats prooved to work isnt available in the area so off you trot basically. He wont b going there again as hes been let down so many times. He has just been given a echp plan which ahould have been done years ago. Its just really hard work and the daily verbal abuse wears ya down.

[Nikki188]

I know what you are saying with cahms, sometimes they have been useful to some people, but in my experience, we have been fobbed off, my daughter has an appointment next month, I think she'll refuse to go, I believe she is bipolar, but I believe cahms will
Say what they said last time, nothing wrong with her, last time they said, she is just attention seeking. They closed the case there and then,
I totall feel for you, it's is mentally exhausting, I dread coming home to her.

[Kareninfrance]

Is it drugs? My son changed completely - was/is abusive, destroyed his room etc etc

[Bakerboo26]

He sieant go out any where at tbe moment.he hasnt been out for a couple of months nw.