I am having trouble with my 14 year old dd at the moment. She is the middle one of three girls, other two are 16 and 10.
Lots of attitude, rudeness and sarcastic comments. Moaning if I'm a few minutes late to pick her up. When I tell her off or reprimand her, she turns on the martyrdom, 'anything else I'm doing wrong?', 'I'm such a terrible daughter' etc
Dd1 was and is a very easy teen and I think that makes dd2 feel worse about herself. I don't think she likes herself very much at the moment. She hates getting in these moods and finds it hard to snap out of them. She doesn't like the fact that dd1 is more easy going.
But however she feels about herself, I do need to ensure that dd2 knows that rudeness is not tolerated. Up till now we haven't had any real behaviour issues and haven't needed any firm consequences. Although all three dds have had their phones/screen time removed when necessary.
How would you suggest dealing with dd2?
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Dancergirl · 10/07/2017 09:18
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