I have always had massive problems in this respect with my dd, 13.
She is very demanding of my time.
Example, today, we go shopping in town for 2 hrs, just the two of us.
After dinner, she calls me in to watch a film on dvd even though I was already watching something on the other tv.
Tonight, she takes an hour and fifteen minutes to get ready for bed, getting distracted and keeping coming to talk to me even when in the shower.
It gets to the point that i end up telling her to leave me alone because I desperately need space which makes me feel horrible hut it's nearly twn and i just want to unwind and read and do my own thing .
Conversely, ds, 8, gets all of five minutes at bedtime. Dh practically gets told to naff off because i know he'll try it on later which is the last thing i need.
Dd is under camhs. She has anxiety and ocd. She has always been high needs. I know it's not normal as ds is more independent.
I am always permanently exhausted because of this behaviour. People tell me that I'll miss it when she is at the stage where 'she doesn't want to know me.' I won't and I wish because this would be normal and expected and i can have a life and spend some of my time on my own terms
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Zippydoodah · 24/06/2017 22:54
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