My son is 16; he has mild Aspergers which manifests itself in him as a little socially uncomfortable but nothing that he can't handle. Recently friends of his told him that a girl at their school has seen his photo, and liked him, so he should contact the girl and say hi. He did this, and started chatting to what seems to be a very pleasant, friendly girl. However, and this not the first time this has happened, within a couple of days, she was accusing him of ignoring her if he didn't respond to her messages quickly enough. She then also complained when he said he was going to bed one night as he had an exam the next day and was tired. She accused him that time of "cutting her off" and wouldn't accept his reassurance that he was just tired. He became really stressed out with her demands, so said to her he didn't think he could continue chatting and she then accused him of hurting her, and two of her friends contacted him to say he was stupid and mean, and that she was a really nice girl and that he didn't know what he'd lost.
I'm baffled by the girl's behaviour; they hadn't met, were chatting a bit and from the little I know of her, seems to come from a nice sensible family. The friends, I assume, were just being loyal to her.
As I said, this isn't the first time this has happened; one girl he met, through a group of friends of his younger sister, sent him a photo of her in a vest top from her neck to her waist after meeting him once, and he was horrified! I've carefully monitored what he said to these girls to make sure he hasn't said anything wrong or inappropriate. Since when did teenage girls become so forward and yet over-sensitive? Is this a new thing? Am I missing something? This is really putting him off interacting with girls. Any advice welcome.
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WarriorNation · 21/05/2017 11:51
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