I'm not a parent, just need advice into how to approach this with my mum.
I have my GCSE'S in a months time and am predicted straight A*, I have good friends and no problems my parents wish to admit, and they seem to see me as almost perfect despite me trying to communicate mental health issues on several occasions.
My relationship with my dad is non existent; he seems to see it as because my grades are good I'm fine, and over my life has not tried to bond with me whatsoever which in itself has lead me to having issues connecting with people.
My mum is the total inverse. We are really close and I have tried to tell her that I'm not okay on several points over the past year and they've usually been brushed off with a "don't be silly".
I'm aware that my parents have seen scars on my arms in the past and I have been able to brush them off as usually, cuts from drama fight scenes but I'm a bad liar so I'd expect them to have known.
As everything is getting worse both at home and school (mainly me putting stress on myself to achieve my grades) I don't know how to approach this with my mum, especially as she is recovering from Cancer and I don't feel like my parents will be able to deal with me being not right.
My three closest friends have all suffered from depression/bipolar/schizophrenia and have all attempted suicide and I've always been there for them through it all, however I can't talk to them while they are recovering against my fear of triggering them, and as two of the friends were very public occurrences I feel like they will put it down to that and dismiss it in hand as they have before.
My main thing is the fact that I keep having suicidal thoughts and have massive body image issues despite being told i look like a typical American Jock (which my family know about, they just put it off to vanity rather than self-hatred really).
Any advice on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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photsonex · 19/04/2017 23:41
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