I have to go away for work in a couple of weeks, and stay over for two nights. We have the option of DH coming with me, doing his own thing in the day time then us going out together in the evening and staying in the hotel with me.
DH thinks that DS16 will be fine in the house on his own. For background, DS is very independent and resourceful, can cook (has a catering GCSE and often cooks dinner), knows what to do if there is an emergency (trip switches, water, changing bulbs, burglar alarm, power cut etc) and has been spending days in the house alone while I work away since he was 11 or so, although DH has always been around at night or he has stayed with my parents.
I have the option of him staying with my parents this time too, they live nearer to his sixth form than we do and are happy to have him, but he would prefer to stay at home. I know he is sensible and wouldn't have wild parties or invite girls over. He will be at cadets on the second evening until 7pm anyway and we would leave him enough money to go to the chip shop if he didn't fancy cooking.
I just can't shake off some worry that it would be wrong to leave him alone overnight, even though he is a phone call and 10 minute drive away from his older brother and grandparents if things went wrong or he got lonely. DH thinks I'm being silly, and I can't even think of a valid reason why he shouldn't be allowed to stay at home, at 16 he could join the army, get married, have a child himself.
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AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 11/01/2017 10:34
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