I desperately need some advice. I have always been close with my son. However at the end of year 11 he decided he didn't want to see his dad anymore (who I don't live with). He told me he was depressed and had symptoms of OCD. I arranged for him to see a counsellor but since then our relationship too has disintegrated. He says he hates me and only lives here because he has nowhere else to go. I have told him I miss my beautiful son he just responded by telling me I am a moron and need therapy. I asked him what for and he said there were too many things. He is rude, sullen, unhelpful, has completely stopped working at school (whereas previously he could have been in line to apply for Oxbridge). Sleeps all day, stays away at friends houses constantly so he 'doesn't have to spend any time near me' (his words). I have no idea what to do. He is clearly angry with me but refuses (and I have tried so many times) to talk to me as he says I don't support him in anything and am just angry with him all the time. I have supported him his entire life as me and his dad split up about 8 years ago and my son has always lived with me. I feel completely hurt and betrayed and have nowhere to turn. He is still seeing a counsellor but because he is 18 I am not allowed any insight to that without my son's permission (which he won't give). Help. I feel bereaved, as if I have totally lost my lovely lovely son.
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