Hi all
I'd appreciate some advice as I'm in new territory here. My oldest dd is 15 and in her first relationship with a lovely boy who is 17. They met through a joint club outside of school on September and have been going out for 4 weeks (that's so you know the context of they knew each other for a while socially before dating).
This is our first experience of the relationship sphere with our 3 children so I'm finding it hard to know what reasonable boundaries are. The challenge is that they are moving very fast in the relationship, they are spending every spare minute together and after a few weeks my dd is saying they have said to each other that they love each other. I'm not quite sure how to handle it all. On the positive they are very at ease and comfortable with each other - many people have commented on this and they seem very well suited. But I suppose I'm concerned that things are moving very fast and dd has never had a boyfriend before. She is also in the midst of studying for her GCSEs so I suppose I'm concerned her life is quite high impact at the moment.
What advice would you give me - dd talks to me a fair bit and has a good friendship group. What boundaries should we be putting in place? Is this likely to be a long term relationship or in your experience do these fast and furious relationships peter out. Please be kind.
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Teenageromance · 27/12/2016 17:40
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