DS15 - DH had call from school today to ask him to come in. DS15 has been caught selling weed. He has been told to go home and will be expelled.
We are devastated.
Knew DS was no angel but this is just the worst thing and I don't know what to do.
DS said he just wanted to look 'cool' - very easily lead, eager to impress his peers etc etc. Had so many issues with his school life. We are always in and out of School but it has been low level messing around so far. We have really tried to make him realise that it is so important to get some good grades - he does struggle.
We have asked the Head Master that if we withdraw DS before they make the decision to expel would this help and he has said that if we do this he will write him a reference without the mention of today's issue. So I have done that but am not sure where to go from here.
I'm not here to be flamed what he has done is unforgivable. DH has been in tears and usually he is so strong.
I would really appreciate it if someone could hold my hand and tell me what I need to do and also of any light that might be at the end of this bloody dark and lonely tunnel.
Thank you x
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