I may be reading too much in to this but my 13 year old Daughter may be on the verge of having some food 'issues' she has become Vegan and watches what she eats - no issue there - however I saw a picture on her phone the other day and it is of a very 'skinny' girl (Off google I would imagine) wearing short shorts and a crop top with a concave tummy, hips sticking out, very skinny legs etc and I asked if that what she was aiming for and she said yes. I explained that everyone has different bone structure and different builds etc and that not everyone could look like that and that also if she did look like that she may well get pretty ill. She stomped off at that point.
At home I would say she eats 'normal' healthy meals but all she takes to school for lunch/snacks etc most days is about 1/4 of a cucumber, some lettuce and some melon - then when she gets home she ends up making herself a sandwich (or two! as in 4 slices of bread). I am treading very carefully as I really don't want to over react or make her feel like I am having a go or making an issue out of nothing but if I ever say it might be better to take a sandwich to school then she wouldn't need one when she gets home she gets in a huff and says she doesn't want to.
All my life I have been on various diets and have always been overweight and I am more than aware her issue - if there is one - could be down to me but I have also been very careful not to put my food issues on to her.
Has anyone else dealt with this before? any advice? or do you think I am just over reacting?
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user1479074866 · 13/11/2016 22:18
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