My DD14 broke the rules spectacularly a few weeks ago and got some secret social media accounts and exchanged numbers with total strangers, (male) and was texting them about meeting up.
She's completely immature for her age and not sure she would ever actually have the confidence to go through with it.
Beside the point it scared me. I made her watch a load of NSPCC grooming videos and took away all tech, phone, iPad etc.
She has behavioural issuesthat are being investigated, likely anxiety disorder and an attachment disorder and is awaiting CBT. She had one episode of self harm, which thankfully was not serious.
It is soon to be her birthday so I think she is on best behaviour.
But she's been so 'changed' (reading books, engaged in family properly, helpful) that I know at some point she's going to want her stuff back and I'm so scared to give it to her. I want to trust her but I just don't. I'm really scared she will do something very silly. At the same time I know I can't wrap her up in cotton wool forever.
She doesn't have the best friendship group, isn't really invited places and doesn't go out much socially. She won't join any clubs. So I can see why joining a fantasy virtual world is so tempting but she doesn't seem to realise the actual danger.
How do you start to trust them? Do you just let them make mistakes and then deal with the consequences?
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