My DD is 14. She's absolutely lovely and has had an incredibly tough year.
She was raped, and we didn't know until months later. Police and school involved, no prosecution possible (I was not impressed with this, but tbh it suited her). The bullying resulting from this meaning she missed the last half term of last year. She lost all her girlfriends. Her dad is a narc idiot and is not supportive of her at all, but she sees him fairly regularly, though that is dropping of as she's getting fed up with him. She goes to see her other family there.
She's had counselling before (nasty divorce, impacted on her) and stopped of her own accord as it wasn't helping anything. She said it made her feel awful after every single session. She tried again, different counsellor and circumstances but same feeling horrendous afterwards result.
She's told me she thinks she might be depressed, which I can absolutely see, so we went to the Dr. The only option is counselling, and she's point blank refused.
Where do I go now? She does talk to me, but certainly doesn't tell me everything, her HOY is great, but again she has a reserve. I was thinking yoga or mindfulness but I don't really know where to start.
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OneDayOff · 19/09/2016 13:10
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